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My wife says I look better with a hairy chest; my emotional friend says it's better shaved. Who's lying?

(Don't get the wrong idea. My emotional friend and I go swimming once in awhile at the local indoor pool. She said this after I complimented her micro-bikini and lack of hair/tan lines. Nothing sexual.)

Public Comments

1. Your wife. She doesn't want you looking sexy for your emotional friend.
2. Dude, I've got "the wrong idea". You have a wife man, be loyal. Keep the hair ;)
3. You're lying to yourself if you don't think there's anything sexual about discussing bikini lines with another woman.
4. doesn't mean they're lying it means one of them likes hair and the other one doesn't like hair. why do you think that they have to be lying just because they have two different opinions.
5. Sure Eddie, get a bro zillian at the same time. How do you know she doesn't have any tan lines anyway?
6. Love a hairy chest better than bare skin. Now back to your "emotional friend"; Yeah who is lying? ROFLMAO
7. Neither one is lying. Hair (or lack of it) is a personal, subjective thing. Personally, I like a man with a hairy chest. Why do you care what you "emotional" friend thinks? You're not boinking her. You're supposed to want to please your WIFE.
8. I personally like no hair on guys chest but it doesn't matter what your friend says as long as your wife likes it:]
9. ur wife loves it your girl---friend has other things that she likes who do you want to satisfy its personal preference.... do you like it...would you rather shave, itch, be bumpy and take on another task in life and maybe disappoint your wife???
10. First off, I LOVE IT that you call her "My emotional friend" I LMAO whenever I read it. Secondly, I think your wife is lying because she doesn't want the ladies at the pool to go gaga over Papa Cacciatore
11. Sounds sexual to me. Women are all different. I do not like hairy or shaved. I prefer in between.
12. yes, Im sure you're "swimming" - you're a do*uche bag!! And what exactly is an "emotional friend"? Shouldn't you're WIFE be the shulder to cry on, or talk to????
13. WTF? Are you trying to say someone is lying about personal preference. Just because someone says you look good one way, does not mean someone is lying because they like you looking a different way. I really hope this question was a joke.
14. Yea ok.So,after you complimented her on her bikini line she told you to shave your chest.Sounds like a wonderful "emotional"friendship.I am sure your wife appreciates that.
15. i think clean shave is better. she probally saying that so no other girl would like you. trust me clean shave is always better
16. if you're married, go with what she likes!
17. Probably neither are lying. Your friend gets to see your chest all nice and smooth while your poor wife has to lie next to you in bed and feel the porcupine of the 4 oclock shadow on your chest. That's nothing that ANYONE wants to snuggle up to.
18. Wow.
19. Your wife is lying. She knows what looks good and she doesn't want to give you bonus items when your out and about with your other friend. Woman are smarter than you give them credit for.
20. I would say what do you want. What make you feel better about yourself.
21. Regardless if your "Emotional Friend" and yourself are engaging in a Sexual affair or not... You already know it isn't okay and would not be cool with your Wife... So the person who is lying is.... You. (Even if it's only to yourself at this point) Your Wife prefers you one way and your "Emotional Friend" prefers you another... however I am 110% certain your WIFE would prefer you ditch your emotional friend and reinvest in your marriage to HER.
22. Dude, YOU'RE the one that's got the wrong idea. Who cares what your 'emotional' friend thinks?! Your wife's opinions is the one you need to take account. God i feel for your wife, Poor woman.
23. Sounds ridiculous to me. Why the hell do you need an "emotional friend" and you're married? Much more, why would this "emotional friend's" opinion matter over your WIFE'S if it's "nothing" anyway. If it's "nothing", as you so casually suggest, does your wife know about this "emotional friend"? And if she does, is she happy about it? I'd think not. I think you have more issues to deal with than a hairy chest Sir.
24. Yeah, go along with your "emotional friend" and get waxed, then let us know how THAT went
25. Neither is lying. They are both expressing their own opinion to what looks good to them. Different strokes for different folks.
26. I am neither your wife or your emotional friend so this is just a personal preference that I find chest hair sexy on a man, but not like a hairy ape. My husband's chest is as slick as a baby's butt and looked pretty good before his chest fell.
27. YOU are LYING to us and to YOURSELF!!! Give us a BREAK!!! Your wife? Your EMOTIONAL friend? WTH is that??? FWB??? (once in a while?) Why should you care what an emotional friend thinks of your chest??? It should not matter in the least whatever she thinks....and ask yourself, "Who am I really trying to impress?" Don't give your emotional friend so much input as to how your chest should look, and if you question your wife's input, then figure out what you like best! Do you like the way YOU look with a hairy chest or a bare chest??? I like it bare or less hairy....but when it truly comes down to it....it's the man himself that counts! If it's overly wild and hairy....I would be turned off....but that's just me..... Some like it hairy and some likes it in betweens and some don't like it at all.....so the decision lays in your hands....NOW keep them to yourself and only use them for your wife and quit touching that unclean "emotional" friend of yours, 'cause lord knows how many other hairy chested men have had their fill of those bare nakedness micro bikini babe! Ciao~
28. i like a man with a little hairy chest so i would do with your wife on that one sorry
29. well to tell you the truth, you might look good both ways.Some women like it when a man shaves and so like them hairy. my man has a hairy chest and offered to shave it if i like it better that way but i don't so no need to shave. so the best thing that i would say to you is that you need to please your wife she is after all the one that is having sex with you. the friend doesn't have any say in it so if the wife likes it keep it less work you got to do right
30. If you were happily married to a woman you adored you wouldn't be asking this question. How much hair are we talking about here? You could post some pictures for us and see which gets the most votes. Why do you think one is lying, though? Can't they just have a difference of opinion?
31. Both could be right. Some female do like hairy chest , especially if you are going to have sex with them. But many like shaved. Btw in case you happen to go close to emotional friend and she also becomes "physical friend" then you should see whether her opinion changes !
32. All you seem to be asking is, how can I look better. This should not be about your chest. It should be about this odd situation. Your wife might be lying so that you look bad, but more likely she is telling the truth because she likes you as you are. She fell for the guy with the hairy chest after all. Your so-called emotional friend sounds like she would have a serious grooming regime for you before you'd be attractive to her. Just don't become a slime, it's such an irreversible downward slope if a man past a certain age gets slimy.